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Follow Jeb instagram.com/maihi_thomson

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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For more info on Adam you can checkout his website here

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For more Daddy Dan, including his podcast head to his Linktree

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We talk needle play with Sharon, AKA Miss Behavin’ – Adelaide Rubber 2023 who is preparing for an upcoming workshop at GEAR’D in Adelaide

NSP List

Find and NSP near you

Gear’d Info https://events.humanitix.com/gear-d-2024-82sqk662 

Follow Miss Behavin’ Adelaide Rubber 2023 on socials

Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing 

Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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There’s a first for everything! Michael and Craig delve into our first times – in sex, kink, and fetish from events to sexcapades.

Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing 

Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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This week, Chief Underwear Thief Craig invites our Mr Vicbears 2024 Joenas into the studio to talk about the upcoming Underwear Auction at the Laird Hotel. The event is Joenas’ title year charity fundraiser, raising money for Pride Foundation Australia – and giving thirsty punters the opportunity to buy the underwear right off the models backs (and fronts)

Tim and Craig chat with Craig about underwear fetishes, and

Follow Michael linktr.ee/muchmoreamusing 

Follow Tim instagram.com/beatzradio/

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Tim and Jon journey through the world of sex and disability with CJ and Grant. We talk about accessibility in kink spaces, and navigating sex and kink with our mental and physical limitations. We talk getting inventive with flashcards, pro dommes, and the occasional apparatus for enhancing pleasure.

Podcast photo by SHVETS production on Pexels

* This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY *

Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing.

If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Tim and Jon take a peek behind the fur with content creator, dancer, model and comic, Gabe Woods. Gabe tells us about his journey as a content creator, his experiences with censorship, being part of a new art exhibition and branching out into adult comedy. Plus, we find out just what happened with Sophie Ellis Bextor.

Gabe Woods can be found on Instagram, TikTok or on his website

* This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 18 2024 on JOY *

Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing.

If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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In part 3 of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Saga, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig meet the dominatrix who teaches others how to do it, Mistress Electra.

Mistress Electra has been a professional dominatrix for over 30 years, and teaches skills to people entering the industry.

* This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY *

Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing.

If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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In part 3 of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Cinematic Universe, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig catch back up with Odus Moore to talk mooore about Sexual Health advocacy.

Odus originally appeared on Hide and Seek in Episode 166 PEP Talk

* This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY *

Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing.

If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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In part 2 of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Saga, Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig get Joenas Galinato back in the hotseat to talk about Southern Hibearnation, and the Bear community in the Philippines.

Joenas originally appeared on Hide and Seek in Episode 157 Who Bears Wins

* This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY *

Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing.

If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Tim, Jon, CJ and Craig launch into the start of the Hide and Seek Radiothon Spectacular

* This episode originally aired Tuesday, June 4 2024 on JOY *

Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing.

If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yaluk-ut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Michael, Tim and Jon talk all things travel and the do’s and don’t’s of taking kink gear, medication and more when you travel. What should you do about your PrEP? What sort of gear travels well? What should you find out about the places you visit before you go?

Later, the team talks about the latest on MPOX cases and vaccination, and keeping informed about travel alerts.

Hot stuff

Down an’Dirty’s Kink on a Budget video, with ideas for travel friendly kink

Southern Hibearnation – June 8th to 16th

 Mpox vaccination information form Emen8

Budget announcement covering all things HIV

* This episode originally aired Tuesday, May 28 2024 on JOY *

Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing.

If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Pup Wolf joins us to share a litte about the new VIC-PAH event, Bark After Dark – the group’s first event with a sex focus. Wolf shares a little about the pup community, finding safe spaces online and in person, and supporting the pups to get… connected.

Later, Michael and Jon talk about news improving HIV prevention programs in the Federal Budget, and the latest on MPOX cases and vaccination

Hot stuff

Victorian Pups and Handlers

Bark After Dark Tickets – Saturday 25 May

 Mpox vaccination information form Emen8

Budget announcement covering all things HIV

* This episode originally aired Tuesday, May 21 2024 on JOY *

Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing.

If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Here to talk affirming trans consent, Michael and Jon are joined by Starlady, the Program Manager at Zoe Belle Gender Collective! With a passion for social justice and a commitment to equity, Starlady tackles discrimination head-on through advocacy, education, and community development. Starlady has worked with remote Indigenous communities and appeared on ABC’s trans focused episode of “You Can’t Ask That” 

Zoe Belle Gender Collective recently launched new 18+ resources discussing sex and consent for both trans and gender diverse people and their partners.

Find resources including the new Gender Diversity, Sex & Consent on the Zoe Belle Gender Collective resources hub

Some other fantastic resources supporting trans folk include

Say It Out Loud – sayitoutloud.org.au

ACON’s TransHub – https transhub.org.au

Qlife – qlife.org.au

Additionally, some of the art from the ZBGC resources is from artist @noahdeaart on X,  @noahdea.art on Instagram

* This episode originally aired Thursday, April 23 2024 on JOY *

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Globetrotting twink and certified smol boi Benny Fox aka @melbournetwink returns to share his experiences of sex work, content creation, and sex worker safety when travelling. We discuss all things from chemsex for content creators, open relationships, and travelling solo in conservative US states.

Find and follow Benny on all manner of social media and spicy sites via linktr.ee/melbournetwink

Benny last joined us on our episode Sex Shooter to talk about sex worker legislation and decriminilisation

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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This week is the return of Tim! Yes, we’re recapping Tim’s hot girl summer with some Tim Tales. We’ve got a little something for everyone with tales of fisting, getting caught on a country road, and understall in the uni toilets.

Share your hot girl summer action and activities with us via our socials or shoot us an email!

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut-Weelam Clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Stu and Rob join us to talk about beats and the art of cruising. We chat about why cruising is important to queer men, what makes a visit go right, and keeping safe while frolicking about town.

Beat safety and health info can be found at

downandirty.org and whereversexhappens.org

This weeks episode image provided in part by Photo by Marco Chilese on Unsplash

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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We’ve got a gangbang of a show coming up in 2024 – so share your tips, tricks, and loads with us! email hideandseek@joy.org.au to tell us what you want to hear on the show this year.

Michael’s favoutite episodes of 2023

No Biggie – Small Penis Size
Just A Hole, Sir – Glory Holes
That’s So Haven – Haven, Alex, and Queer Trans Men

Jon’s favourite episodes of 2023

Kink Looks Better In Colour – Racism in Kink and Fetish Communities
Ageing Disgracefully – Older Men
Up To Scratch – the Australian Pup and Handler Competition

Events coming up!

Titleholder and Competition Q&A @ The Laird (all genders) Sat 13 Jan
Midsumma Carnival Sunday 21 Jan
Victoria’s Pride Street Party (Vicky P!) Sun 11 Feb
Hanky Party (all genders) Sat 22 Mar
Trough Pride – Sat 20 Jan

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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We were so chuffed to be the recipients of the 2023 Addam Stobbs Award for Broadcasting Excellence at the JOY AGM!

Addam was a longtime presenter of Allegro Non Troppo at JOY until his passing in 2010 and this award is named for him.

At a time when our community is attacked, called groomers and pedophiles by hate commentators simply for daring to be their authentic selves- it’s truly an honour for us to be able to have the trust of JOY to present a show on broadcast radio about queer sex. Our sex lives form an important part of our lives, and queer pleasure is something we’ll fight tooth and nail to celebrate. So, thank you to the entire team at JOY for acknowledging us this year. Most imortantly, thank you to all our amazing guests who have candidly shared their thoughts and often intimate personal experiences of sex. Here we have a really quick reflection on the night and winning the award.

Don’t worry, the real episode for this week is coming tomorrow.

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

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Hear more from Preston and Pusckatt as we kept the mics rolling for just a bit more of these incredible international superstars.

Something we missed? We’d love you to get in touch via hideandseek@joy.org

Please rate us! if you’ve enjoyed listening to our show, we’d love for you to give us a review via your podcast app!

Found our socials https://linktr.ee/hideandseekonjoy

Find Preston
@mirubberxx and via his website https://mirubberxx.com/

Find Pusckatt
@pusckatt.onyx on all his socials https://linktr.ee/pusckatt

Onyx Deep South https://www.onyxdeepsouth.com/

Melbourne Rubber’s diversity and inclusion policy and check out melbournerubber.com

This episode was recorded during SLICK23! Find all the SLICK events https://www.melbournerubber.com/slick

And check out Melbourne Rubber on socials via their Linktree https://linktr.ee/melbournerubber

This week’s podcast photography of Preston and Pusckatt taken by the Hide and Seek team at the JOY studios!

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Preston and Pusckatt share with us their very public experiences with and combatting racism that pervades fetish communities. We discuss allyship and what our communities can do to strengthen their commitment to and representation of people of colour.

Something we missed? We’d love you to get in touch via hideandseek@joy.org

Please rate us! if you’ve enjoyed listening to our show, we’d love for you to give us a review via your podcast app!

Found our socials https://linktr.ee/hideandseekonjoy

Find Preston
@mirubberxx and via his website https://mirubberxx.com/

Find Pusckatt
@pusckatt.onyx on all his socials https://linktr.ee/pusckatt

Onyx Deep South https://www.onyxdeepsouth.com/

Melbourne Rubber’s diversity and inclusion policy and check out melbournerubber.com

This episode was recorded during SLICK23! Find all the SLICK events https://www.melbournerubber.com/slick

And check out Melbourne Rubber on socials via their Linktree https://linktr.ee/melbournerubber

This week’s podcast photography provided with thanks to Preston and Pusckatt

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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We even get a glimpse into their talent round performances for the stage at the Laird on Friday as part of SLICK

What are they in for? Hear from the 2022 title holders Sergio and Delsi in the other half of this week’s episode here: https://joy.org.au/hideandseek/2023/09/ep-141-rise-and-shine-side-a-sergio-delsi

Rubberscum has all his link sin his Linktree https://linktr.ee/Rubberscum 

Joel is essential @RbrJoel on X Instagram Recon, and just about everything else

FFunOtter has all his link son his Flowpage https://www.flowcode.com/page/ffun_otter

Find all the SLICK events https://www.melbournerubber.com/slick

And check out Melbourne Rubber on socials via their Linktree https://linktr.ee/melbournerubber

This week’s podcast photography provided with thanks to the MRM23 contestants!

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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Who will take the title? Hear from the MRM23 contestants in the second half of this week’s episode here: https://joy.org.au/hideandseek/2023/09/ep-141-rise-and-shine-side-a-mrm23-contestants

Connect with Delsi via her website: https://www.withdelsi.com/ or on instagram @delsicat

Connect with Sergio via his instagram https://www.instagram.com/sergiosiente/

Find all the SLICK events https://www.melbournerubber.com/slick

And check out Melbourne Rubber on socials via their Linktree https://linktr.ee/melbournerubber

This week’s podcast photography provided with thanks to the MR 22 title holders!

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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We discuss the “long and short” of penis size perceptions within the gay, bi, and queer community. Joining us is the Beau, as we tip-toe through the not-so-tiny world of how media, porn, and Twitter chatter shape expectations around the ol’ tallywhacker.

From societal standards that can sometimes feel as rigid as, well, you know, to the portrayal of penile prowess in various forms of entertainment, we’re unzipping the truth of penis size. We’ll probe into the intersection of racism and fatphobia and how these factors play a role in perceptions.

But wait, there’s more! We’ll also tap into the art of measurement, exploring how this delicate matter often gets tangled in the web of confirmation bias. And speaking of web, Twitter culture’s impact? Oh, it’s a throbbing subject, alright.

Amidst all the winks and nods, we’ll shed light on nudism’s role as a liberating route to embracing diversity in the, let’s say, “appendage arena.”

We revisit the time Tim and Michael attempted to mold their own members and whether Beau had more success in that regard.

So, join us for a no-‘holes’-barred, ballsy discussion that’s all about breaking down the expectations, revealing the realities, and, most importantly, celebrating the wondrous spectrum that the male form has to offer. Remember, it’s not just the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean, and the camaraderie on the deck that truly counts.

Read Beau’s article in Drip Feed https://dripfeed.life/blogs/dripfeed/where-are-all-the-small-dicks-dickflation-and-the-problem-with-amateur-porn 

Drip Feed is, of course, run by the immeasurable Hugh from our Live Lube Love episode: https://joy.org.au/hideandseek/2022/09/ep-99-live-lube-love/ 

Find out more about Beau https://linktr.ee/beaunewham

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

The post Ep 140 – No Biggie – Side A appeared first on Hide and Seek.

What should you think about before you buy a toy? What materials are better for what?

Artwork for this week’s episode in part by Barcex via Wikimedia Creative Commons

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

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We talk about the changes to sex worker legislation, with the coming second stage of the Sex Work Decriminalisation Act in December. The legislation changes were championed by Fiona Patten during her time as a MLC, and she last appeared on Hide and Seek in 2016.

Find out what to expect when you see a sex worker for the first time, as well as what to think about when you start out as a sex worker!

Benny mentioned his Tiktok in the episode. You can find it at @bennyfoxxx

We discuss sex worker support services like Scarlet Alliance, RhED and SWOP (Sex Workers Outreach Project in NSW)

Listen to Benny’s last appearance on the show in Episode 116 – Summer Loving

Artwork from this week’s epiosde in part by CottonBro via Pexels

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

The post Ep 136 – Side A – Sex Shooter appeared first on Hide and Seek.

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Brian is @downunderbri on just about everything

Twitter – twitter.com/downunderbri

Instagram – instagram.com/downunderbri

…and Guy Films Guy on Twitter – twitter.com/guyfilmsguy

grab some free condoms and lube for your next part at downandirty.org

Find JOY’s other podcasts at joy.org.au 

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This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Trough can be found at Trough Events, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter

Image in part provided by Hanky Party (photographer @gerry.seeds.x

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See the latest from VicBears at their Facebook Page.

SH2023 tickets are available through that page, too.

For events and community elsewhere in Australia:

Check out:

• Harbour City Bears in Sydney
• BrisBears in Brisbane
• TasBears in Tasmania
• Bear New Zealand
• Bear Men of Adelaide
• Bears Perth.

We mention BathhouseBears in the last part of the show. BathhouseBears is supported by Down’an’Dirty and Craig B, who we were unaware had the title in 2010.

We first had Damien on the show shortly after the crowning, during Episode 97 talking about Sash events, and again in Episode 108 Secret-Bear-Business.

Mitchell was one of the judges for the Australian Pup and Handler Competition which we covered in Episodes 105 and 109.

Jonny also appeared on Hide and Seek back in January during episode 117 Bear In There.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

Hide and Seek is produced on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam Clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples 

The post Ep 130 – Bear With Us appeared first on Hide and Seek.

During the episode we talk about fetish art, as well as other forms like life drawing, which you can hear more about in episode 124, Drawn Together

Dylan also mentioned his experiences in Queensland, particularly involving BootCo leather club and the Sportsman Hotel

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

The post Ep 129 – Dirty Picture appeared first on Hide and Seek.

During the episode, we mentioned on of our past episodes, Give Piss a Chance, with the beautiful Rhys

You can hear FFunOtter’s previous appearance, My Left Hand – Fisting, here!

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

The post Ep 128 – Go Piss Girl appeared first on Hide and Seek.

How can Sexology help with issues ranging from erectile dysfunction, porn addiction and even PTSD?

Jordan explains hos Sexology differs from Sex Therapy, as well as his own journey to Sexology and a healthier understanding of intimacy.

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

The post Ep 126 – Let Your Body Work appeared first on Hide and Seek.

Why is intimacy important, and what is keeping people from a healthy exploration of intimacy in their relationships? In an app-driven culture, can intimacy coexist with the search for instant gratification?

Curt is the organiser of the Touching the Heart Retreat in NSW, and during the show he mentioned the recurring classes in Brunswick, including the Naked Stretch class. At Curt’s suggestion, Tim will be attending the Multiple Orgasm and Naked Ritual workshops and will give us a rundown in future episodes.

To hear Curt’s previous interview with us, head to Episode 62 – Nakedman Special

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

The post Ep 125 – Hold Me Closer… appeared first on Hide and Seek.

Jean Luc (JL) talks about the broad strokes of the Melbourne Life Drawing scene, while Dean gives us a model’s perspective on the challenges and rewards that come from striking a pose! We talk beginners advice, modeling courses, and what goes into putting on a successful Life Drawing event.

JL spoke with MAD Wednesdays before Covid, and you can catch up on that segment here!

You can follow Top Secret Life Drawing, as well as Jean Luc and Dean on Instagram. There is also the Fitzroy Art Collective, and the Life Models Society.

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

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FfunOtter talks about preparation, training, and safety, and we punch out some raunchy stories, too!

We touch on douching, which was covered in depth with Craig from Down an Dirty in Come Clean.

Jon had a great story about a fisting accident in the Quickies, so listen to Sex Accidents.

For some Melbourne based BDSM workshops, check out the Establishment and Folsom Down Under

If you’d like to check out some online events, follow DnD Live by Down an Dirty

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

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CJ explains safety, play spaces, and how to get the most out of an SM session.

For more on Play Spaces, you can check out our past episode, Dungeons and Daddies, where we discuss how to lay out a play space.

CJ mentions her love of Erotic Hypnosis, which you can hear us discuss with Matt C in Eyes Wide Slut.

In talking about CBT (pain play with genitals), CJ and Jon also talk about Urethral Sounding, which we talked about in depth (hehehehe) in Sneaky Sound System.

For some Melbourne based BDSM workshops, check out the Establishment and Folsom Down Under

If you’d like to check out some online events, follow DnD Live by Down an Dirty

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

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For more on the history of Bootblacking, here’s Alistair LeatherHiraeth’s history

To find out more about the Order of Sydney Bootblacks, visit their Facebook Page

Visit the Bootblack Wiki for more on Bootblacking

For our previous discussion of the IMrL/IMrBb controversy, check out Episode 178 – There’s a Bear In There

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Gadigal people of the Eora nation. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

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Community Links

For Melbourne folx, the Bi+ Community of Melbourne on Facebook and Melbourne Bi+ 40+ Events on Facebook are both great social spaces (and according to Steve, a source of memeable content ranging from puntastic to pants-wettingly funny)
Triple Bi Pass, Joy’s very own Bi+ panel show (off air atm, but can listen to their past episodes at joy.org.au/triplebipass)
Sydney Bi+ people can dive into the Sydney Bi+ Network  and Sydney Bisexual+ Community
And for more across the whole of Australia, the Bi Alliance Australia has great information

Steve previously appeared on Hide and Seek in Episode 47 – Knowing Me, Knowing U=U and Episode 15 – A Rush of Blood to the Head (Poppers)

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See the bear competition photos and the rest of BearFest at the VicBears Facebook Page

For more on the Midsumma Pride March, click on https://www.midsumma.org.au/whats-on/events/midsumma-pride-march/

Harbour City Bears in Sydney’s Bear Essentials events for World Pride can be found at https://www.bearessentials.com.au/

Southern HiBearnation 2023 has just been announced for June 2023 – https://vicbears.org.au/events/southern-hibearnation/

The full statement from International Ms Leather 2018, Sir Ange, that was referenced in this episode is as follows:

The entire International Mr Bootblack contest team have taken a stand against the visible transphobic, misogynistic, and exclusionary behavior of some members of the board. However, to ignore a problem condones the behavior, so the responsibility for change lies on all shoulders. Many opportunities for change have come and gone for the IML & IMBB board to address the inequity of their alliances and actions. I sincerely hope the action of our incredible Bootblacks is the catalyst for some necessary progress, that is well overdue.

– Sir Ange (Ms International Leather 2018)

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Learn about how Sunnyside Beach kept their clothing optional status at https://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/michael-spearheaded-a-campaign-to-save-this-nudist-beach-now-its-future-has-been-revealed/tvo3vlj12

For a naked time, check out ADAM at https://adam.melbourne/

For Homo Erotica and LUST, check out https://buffevents.com/

Folsom Down Under and their 2023 events can be found at https://folsom.org.au/

Check out the Midsumma Festival at https://www.midsumma.org.au/

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For more resources for trans people, their friends and families or more, go to Trans Gender Victoria at https://tgv.org.au/

For more on VicBears, the competition, and their regular and special events, visit https://vicbears.org.au/

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To find more on mud play and connect with gunge enthusiasts, check out https://umd.net/

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To find more about Eagle Leather, check out https://www.eagleleather.com.au/

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Adam.Melbourne website

Instagram: @adam.in.melbourne

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Later sexual health nurse Mark joins us to chat about testing during and after lockdown, and what is on the horizon for our community as we look toward our roadmap out of COVID.

Get tested

Prepped Smart and Healthy 

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We check in with the Queen on Social Distancing, Moira Rose on staying apart in iso and look into Owen’s checkered and seedy past as a ghostwriter of ‘XXXMen’ erotic fiction.

 Of course, power and pride to Mark Patton on his journey with living out and proud as a member of the LGBTI community and becoming an HIV advocate.

Don’t forget to check out this weeks main episode on erotica with Dr. George.

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Check out this week’s SEXTRA episode ‘The Nancy Boy of Horror’ 

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Don’t forget to check out this weeks main episode on sex work and porn

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Scarlet Alliance

Emergency Support for Sex Workers Chuffed campaign

Find Max on Twitter, Only Fans, Just for Fans, and Instagram

Also check out Joel Devereux‘s Photography

Check out this week’s SEXTRA episode ‘Bat Nipples’

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We haven’t delved into fisting for a while so it’s time to stretch out those muscles again. Anthony joins us to chat about the 101’s fisting, and his top (and bottom) tips and tricks for a successful session.

Anthony will also join Michael live with Down an’ Dirty on Thursday 11th June @ 7pm for a a little face to face via Zoom.

Here is the clip of Tandi Iman Dupree that Michael and Owen got off topic talking about.

Last week we set aside sex for a moment to talk about things of greater importance – Black Lives Matter. Check out last weeks episode and get engaged with the movement here:

Black Lives Matter support and bail outs via Carrd

Black Lives Matter resources via Notion.so

Black Rainbow – advocacy platform and touchpoint for Indigenous LGBTI folk

Democracy In Colour – racial and economic justice organisation led by people of colour

We normally take out our music that goes live to air, but this week we’re including We Sing Until Sunrise by local indigenous artists The Merindas.

Last week’s episode ‘Strange Fruit’ takes its title from the Billie Holiday song. Check out the Black Lives Matter playlist on Spotify for more songs of empowerment and pride.

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The post 81. “Hello Poly” – Poly Relationships in Lockdown appeared first on Hide and Seek.

PrEP’D For Change website 

PrEP’D For Change on Facebook

PAN [PrEPaccessNOW] website (including coupons, cheaper PrEP, and buying online)

PAN [PrEPaccessNOW] Facebook

Restarting PrEP Strategies 

COVID and Our Communities – ACON

COVID-19 – Thorne Harbour Health

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Join Michael, Tim, and Owen to talk about how we’re keeping up our sex game without others being physically involved.

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The post 71. “Drugs and Kisses” – Drugs appeared first on Hide and Seek.

I kinda like the smell!

Michael and Tim stink up the JOY studio to talk about body odor and pits! We’re joined by Thomas who’s a bit of an armpit pig who likes a good sniff. We chat about what it is about the stench of a sweaty guy that gets us riled up, and where we draw the line between sweet sweat and vile BO.

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The post 59. “We Got The Stink” – Body Odor appeared first on Hide and Seek.

The sexperts are feelin’ doxy!

There’s been a bit of talk lately in the community about using antibiotics to prevent STIs. The process isn’t approved but people are using it – so lets open up a conversation – let’s talk about Doxy PrEP!

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The post 57. “Don’t Bug Me” – Doxy PrEP appeared first on Hide and Seek.

Guess who’s back in the house!

We’re back after being banned by Instagram, and nearly banned by SCRUFF. We have a quick catch up to discuss queer content on platforms where we’re just trying to connect for Pete’s sake!

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The post 56. SEXTRAS “I See You Watching Me Watching You” – Exhibitionism appeared first on Hide and Seek.

Let’s go outside…

We’re tackling exhibitionism and Max is joining us to talk about putting on a show, taking sexual spaces respectfully, and OnlyFans!

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We’re on overload…

with so much happening in the community we can’t stick to just one topic this week. We do a whip around of the Amyl ban, other podcasts and online bullying, and what’s on in the world of gay sex!

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Save the Date!

We like to get down and dirty on Hide and Seek – but we are kicking back this week and exploring dating!

Tim and Michael talk past dating experiences, getting onto the scene, etiquette – and what dating dealbreakers make us!

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Michael and Tim got bored one night and decided to pick up a couple of DIY dildo kits. With somewhat mixed results, we’re walking you through the process of how you can use the clone a willy kit to make a replica of your member.

This is a special SEXTRA edition of Hide and Seek exclusively to JOY Podcasts!

Tune in for nonsense, stress, lube, and a whole lot of fun.

The Clone A Willy kit video might give you some idea of what we’ve been up to

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Do it yourself…

Check out the Clone-A-Willy kit for yourself

The post 50b. “What I’ve Got You’ve Got To Get It Put It In You” – Clone A Willy appeared first on Hide and Seek.

Get wild and free as we explore what it means to be be one with the Faeries.

Radical Faery Eureka joins us to share his experience joining the fat lifestyle, and how he incorporates his art and spirituality into the counter-cultural phenomenon born out of the gay rights movement in the late 1970’s.

Ya bunch of faeries!

It’s 40 years in August since the Spiritual Conference for Radical Fairies was held in the USA. The Australian context is slightly different, and Eureka shares how identifies with the concept of breaking down hyper masculinity, and how fae queer spirituality aligns with his faith history of Christianity and Catholicism.

Later in the episode, Melbourne Rubber Man 2016 Liam joins us to tell us about his queer Eurovision fundraiser. We discuss who he’s rooting for (and who he’d root) in Eurovision. Liam will be back in a few weeks to talk about the Melbourne Rubber Man fundraiser happening at the Laird on May 11. Tune in for our rubber special in a few weeks!

Get wild!

The Radical Faeries Website – Oz Faeries

RubberLiam’s Eurovision Fundraiser on Facebook

Save or Shave! The Melbourne Rubber Man Fundraiser

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We’re getting wild with international adult entertainment superstar, Rocco Steele!

Unless you’ve been living under a Rocco… you’ll know Mr. Steele from his work in the gay adult entertainment industry over the past 5 years. As he embarks on a tour around Australia and New Zealand with Thick N Juicy Productions we grab him for a chat. We discuss his career beginnings, favourite scenes, what the tour will be like – and being an HIV-positive adult film star.

We discuss what lies ahead for the brand that is Rocco Steele – with producing and directing work, a line of toys, and his brand of men’s underwear 10Seven.

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Steele these great links

Thick N Juicy – for more info on how to see Rocco while he’s here

Win tickets to the VIPenis experience with Rocco thanks to Thick N Juicy

10Seven – Rocco Steele’s underwear brand

Rocco on Instagram and Twitter

Rocco by Perfect Fit 

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More with underwear bandit Craig exclusive to our podcast SEXTRAS that didn’t make it to air.

Craig tells us about his artistic plans for his collection, and some of his favourite moments in collecting underwear over the years.

We unpack our online poll question  “it’s time to upgrade your jocks when…” with some great answers.

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Michael and Tim sit down with the underwear bower bird of Melbourne, Craig to tell us about his proclivity for procuring men’s underwear. Craig doesn’t just wear them, he hoards them!

Connor and Brad phone in to tell us about their magnificent collections of styles and brands – and why a good pair of jocks makes them feel sexy.

We chat with Harry from Addicted Australia and New Zealand about running a boutique underwear brand, their new collection, and what Harry prefers to rock for his jocks. Harry and the team at Addicted also offered us a $100 gift voucher for their online store to one lucky winner. Our competition is STILL open. You just need to tell us “It’s time to replace your jocks when…” on our Facebook post to enter!

Fresh links!

Some of the great resources we talk about this week:

Addicted Australia where JOY listeners can get 20% off their order until Friday! Just enter JOY20 (all caps) during checkout!

Michael Rizzi’s “Straight Guys React to Andrew Christian Underwear”

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Sydney man and friend of the show, Steve Spencer, recently spoke with the Star Observer about his experience becoming HIV-positive having used On Demand PrEP.

On Demand PrEP is a way of taking anti-HIV medication before and after sex – rather than every single day. Since Steve’s article was released – community has rallied behind him in support of his well articulated, fact-based, and informative words supporting PrEP, and fighting HIV stigma as a person now living with HIV.

Some community had questions. Some of the wider mainstream media and public opinion has been fear based, and stigma driven. Steve joins us in the studio to talk about what happened, and answer come questions directly from the community.

First, Tim and Michael give you a crash course in the efficacy of PrEP as a strategy, and how On Demand PrEP fits the equation.

Steve joins us to talk about his story, and what lies ahead now as an HIV-positive person.

Steve sticks around to answer questions – directly from the community.

We ran a Q&A on our Instagram @hideandseekonjoy  and Steve will continue to answer questions as best he can so head over to Instagram to check out our story.

Facts are facts!

Some of the great resources we talk about this week:

Steve’s article by Nic Holas for the Star Observer 

PAN [PrEPaccessNOW] – pan.org.au

PrEP’D For Change – prepdforchange.com

Rinse And Repeat’s Whatever Comes Your Way

Thorne Harbour Health’s On Demand PrEP video 

The Institute of Many – the largest peer-based grassroots movement for people living with HIV in Australia – theinstituteofmany.org

PrEP outside Australia? Head to Please PrEP Me – pleaseprepme.global

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Get your gunge on with Muddy Matt and Muddy Bob as we delve into Wet And Messy fetish. Specifically, we’re looking at guys who love to get down and dirty in the mud,

Filthy/Gorgeous!

Not sure how writing in the mud and getting it on would work? What about sticks, and the cold, and bugs! Have no fear, Muddy Matt and Bob are here to filthy up your mind on this weeks gunge special.

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Get filthy on…

Down an’ Dirty

HowHard

UMD – The dirtiest site in the world.

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Prepare to be dominated! Tim and Michael delve into relationships with an exchange of power. Managing safe, sane, and consensual pre-arranged casual scenes, to relationships where the appearance is that a sub is dominated by their Sir.

I was busy thinkin’ bout bois!

Because two doms just won’t do… our guest sub -or boi- Brett joins us to talk about being the submissive to his Dom -or Sir- and how they manage consent, boundaries, limits, routines, (and punishments!) along the way.

Finally, we have a quick chat about Mardi Gras and the state of sexual health in Victoria.

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Mess around with these resources…

BDSM on Down an’ Dirty

BDSM on HowHard

Also, if you are a Victorian who accesses or would like to access sexual health services – have your say about how the government continues to grow and shape services based on our needs as a community. Fill out the Victorian Sexual Health Service Review survey

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In our sextras we unpack a few more contributions from Max and Dave who dumped a whole lot of scat topics onto us! We share Dave’s story of coming out to his partner and the intricacies of pathologising our kinks and fetishes

DOWN-LOAD!

Tim has selected our scat play porn to review this week and things get VERY messy! Tune in to hear all about it!

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Mess around with these resources…

Coporophilia on Down an’ Dirty

The post 44. SEXTRAS “You Can Leave Your Scat On” – Scat Play appeared first on Hide and Seek.

Things get messy this week as we delve into the world of scat – or flagging brown. We talk touch, taste, smell, and headspace so if you’re squeamish about talking about going to the toilet be advised – we really kick up a stink!

Scats amazing!

Our offline contributors Max and Dave didn’t feel comfortable joining us in the studio because of how stigmatised scat play is in the wider community. They provided us with some great talking points so that we could report on behalf of them – so thanks to the guys!

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Mess around with these resources…

Scat Play on Down an’ Dirty

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It’s all about intimacy this week as we get our cuddle on! We’re talking about what can sometimes seem like a lack of affection in our wham-bam thank you man culture of apps and casual hook-ups. It’s time for a bloody good canoodle!

Join the club

Tim has formed a new club centered around cuddling – so we unpack what the group members are looking for, how they arrange meet ups, and is more than a hug is on the cards? We talk about the health benefits of a spooning session vs a good forking, and get some advice from canoodle connoisseur John Stamos.

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Curl up with these…

How To Cuddle illustrated guide

John Stamos Guide to Cuddling video

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The World Naked Bike Ride in Melbourne is coming up in a few weeks – so Tim and Michael think thats as good an excuse as any to strip off in the studio and chat with (the other) Michael from the World Naked Bike Ride team.

Giving Body-ody-ody

So why strip naked and ride through the city streets? Great question. Whether it’s for body positivity, to promote cyclist safety, or for mother earth – the World Naked Bike Ride is a great way to show your creativity and advocate for a good cause.

Ride it!

Michael from the World Naked Bike Ride talks to us about what to expect at the event, how to get involved, and whether stripping off to nothing is mandatory or not. We chat about how to keep your bits safe (chafing!) and being sunsmart when you’re on full display.

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Ride

World Naked Bike Ride Melbourne

16 March 2019, peddling off from North Melbourne

Click to register, and more info about the event

WNBR Melbourne on Instagram | Facebook

Other nude events around town

ADAM Nude events for men

Cosmex Nude Swim and Massage

Skinz nude pop-up Restaraunt

Helios members club

NUDIES

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U Up?

We like, we like to party.

Tim and Michael dive deep into the sextras with some drug talk and getting down and dirty in Berlin the sex party capital of the globe! We also have a sex party porn to review in our DOWN-LOAD… what else!

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Want to sniff out what’s happening with the proposed ban on poppers?

Check out one the public meeting on poppers in Melbourne! registrations have now closed, but head along and attend anyway!

Melbourne

Thursday 7 February 2019

La Trobe City Campus

360 Collins St, Melbourne VIC

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

The post 41. SEXTRAS “Get The Party Started” – Sex Parties appeared first on Hide and Seek.

Yes, we’re ready to move it til the break of dawn!

Your body is my party

Tim and Michael recant our (many) tales of venturing out to sex parties, orgies, and multiple body sex encounters. We weigh in on whether a SOPV or a house party is better. How do you navigate hygiene, and invite etiquette. How do you make sure there are enough tops to go around?!

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Want to sniff out what’s happening with the proposed ban on poppers?

Check out one the public meeting on poppers in Melbourne! registrations have now closed, but head along and attend anyway!

Melbourne

Thursday 7 February 2019

La Trobe City Campus

360 Collins St, Melbourne VIC

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

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Michael and Tim get the balls rolling, and squeezing, and dripping, and stretching this week as we get right into cock and ball torture.

Craig’s list

With the help of our expert in cock and ball torture, Craig, we work through the kinds of CBT – it’s not all about paddles and getting kicked in the junk! We chat about wax vs paddles, suspension vs boots – and how to keep the whole experience safe and sane.

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Want to sniff out what’s happening with the proposed ban on poppers?

Check out one of the two public meetings on poppers!

More info and to register, go here: https://thorneharbour.org/news-events/news/amyl/ 

Sydney

Thursday, 31 January

Kirby Institute

UNSW Wallace Wurth Building, High St, Kensington NSW

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

Melbourne

Thursday 7 February 2019

La Trobe City Campus

360 Collins St, Melbourne VIC

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

Thorne Harbour Health’s Poppers news

Down an’ Dirty on CBT

Mannhaus, Eagle Leather, SAX Leather and Fetish, and Lucrezia & De Sade where you can find all manner of cock and ball torture devices, tools, and info!

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Time to bring back the SEXTRAs!

Our Porn Review “DOWN-LOAD” makes its triumphant return to the Sextras, plus we look at the #MeeToo Gillette advertisement, gay observations of toxic masculinity, and the infamous Photographer brief from a local Melbourne gay nightclub perpetuating misogyny – and unhealthy or toxic masculine views.

Pop A Bottle

You can attend two public consultation forums, in Sydney and in Melbourne before the TGA makes its decision on whether to ban poppers.

More info and to register, go here: https://thorneharbour.org/news-events/news/amyl/ 

Sydney

Thursday, 31 January

Kirby Institute

UNSW Wallace Wurth Building, High St, Kensington NSW

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

Melbourne

Thursday 7 February 2019

La Trobe City Campus

360 Collins St, Melbourne VIC

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

Thorne Harbour Health’s Poppers news

Down an’ Dirty on Poppers

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Michael and Tim are getting #SWOLE in this special enhanced edition of Hide and Seek looking at the impact of PIEDs – or Performance and Image Enhancing Drugs.

Whether it’s steroids, aminos, peptides, or even cialis…. there are a number of ways we use drugs to enhance our physique and our physical and sexual performance.

We chat with gym owner and personal trainer Jon Kok about how to use these substances safety, drug interactions, and why gay men are obsessed with the perfect physique. We also talk about the different substances that offer different kinds of bodily improvement. Of course, we talk about other ways to keep fit, and align your body with the one in your mind.

With our subject so intrinsically connected to the subjects of positive and toxic masculinity – we talk brieftly about the recent news about a Melbourne LGBTI club’s photographer brief scandal – but we hold over most of that chat… for the SEXTRAS!

Pop A Bottle

We double drop this week, as we are again joined by Owen Hall from Dancewize (a program of Harm Reduction Victoria) to talk about drug safety, and pill testing over the summer party season. Heading out, and potentially imbibing in some substances? Take a listen in.

We talk briefly on how you can STILL have your say on the poppers ban. Public submissions have closed – but you can follow this messaging guideline before heading to one of the public consultations this and next month. It has been put together by health professionals and advocates to help you get the most out of your say! http://bit.ly/NAGmessagingguide

You can attend two public consultation forums, in Sydney and in Melbourne before the TGA makes its decision.

More info and to register, go here: https://thorneharbour.org/news-events/news/amyl/ 

Sydney

Thursday, 31 January

Kirby Institute

UNSW Wallace Wurth Building, High St, Kensington NSW

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

Melbourne

Thursday 7 February 2019

La Trobe City Campus

360 Collins St, Melbourne VIC

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

Thorne Harbour Health’s Poppers news

Down an’ Dirty on Poppers

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Michael and Tim are BACK for a 2019 full of sexy content, and we’ve invited two very special guests to join us on the show this week. Midsumma is fast approaching, as as the community kicks back, parties, and gets frisky in the summer months we talk about consent in sex spaces, and also about substances we might take over the party season.

Consent is sexy!

We are joined by Hide and Seek listener and consent advocate Brodie Turner who is the coordinator of Midsumma 2019’s Consent Festival – the launching event for the Midsumma season! We talk about queer people leading in the consent advocacy space, and auctioning practical skills around consent. We look beyond sex in consent in health, and the workplace outside the general concept of “yes is yes, no is no”

Double Drop!

We double drop this week, as we are again joined by Owen Hall from Dancewize (a program of Harm Reduction Victoria) to talk about drug safety, and pill testing over the summer party season. Heading out, and potentially imbibing in some substances? Take a listen in.

We talk briefly on how you can STILL have your say on the poppers ban. Public submissions close soon – and you can follow this messaging guideline to help craft a submission to the TGA and have your say. It has been put together by health professionals and advocates to help you get the most out of your say! http://bit.ly/NAGmessagingguide

You can also attend two public consultation forums, in Sydney and in Melbourne before the TGA makes it’s decision.

Sydney

Thursday, 31 January

Kirby Institute

UNSW Wallace Wurth Building, High St, Kensington NSW

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

Melbourne

Thursday 7 February 2019

La Trobe City Campus

360 Collins St, Melbourne VIC

16:00 – 18:00, Afternoon tea 15:30

Consent Festival at Midsumma 2019

Dancewize

BeHeardNotHarmed: Pill Testing Campaign event

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…downloads obviously. It’s the best of 2018!

We had a peek behind the curtain to see what you, our thirsty listener, really absorbed in 2018. We also talk about our favourite shows, spoiler – Tim’s is getting naked.

Check out our best of for the year, and get in touch about what YOU want to hear on the airwaves in 2019 by getting in touch with us!

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Guess what, Tim is back! We sit down with Nic Holas from The Institute of Many to talk about HIV prevention in 2018 and unpacking what undetectable means.

What about the #Sextras!

No sextras this week, tune in next week!

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Spread some facts:

• The Institute of Many website
• The Institute of Many on Facebook
• Living Positive Victoria
• Whatever Comes Your Way – On Demand PrEP video
• National Association of people with HIV Australia (NAPWHA )

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More on PrEP and Undetectable with Damon L. Jacobs from PrEP Facts: Rethinking HIV Prevention and Sex!

Michael and Damon talk the Grim Reaper, fear, and taking loads – woo hoo!

We also dovetail into his latest side project on smoking cessation in the LGBTI communities!

Where’s the rest of the show?

We’ve moved our rubber episode SEXTRA content over to this separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the Main Episode!

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Get Prepped and ready:

• PrEP Facts: Rethinking HIV Prevention and Sex on Facebook
• Prevention Access Campaign‘s U=U consensus statement
• PAN [PrEPaccessNOW]
• PrEP’D For Change
• National Association of people with HIV Australia (NAPWHA )

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Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) and U=U go together, hand in hand. They’re two important halves of the same coin – and we’re unpacking what it means to prevent HIV with these two powerful tools and the early years of activism.

Michael is joined by PrEP warrior Damon L. Jacobs, founder of PrEP Facts: Rethinking HIV Prevention and Sex – the global Facebook group dedicated to sharing evidence-based PrEP information to just on 22,000 people around the globe.

Damon, a New York City boy, was in Australia for the Navigating sex in the era of U=U and PrEP speaking tour alongside Bruce Richman from Prevention Access Campaign – founder of the U=U movement.

Damon was happy to share his insights on initiating PrEP, and his vast experience in the field of health promotion, activating other PrEP users, and debunking PrEP myths.

We also touch on the benefits of PrEP and Undetectable Viral Load working together in harmony to empower gay men to control their sexual health and improve their pleasure by giving the finger to stigma and the serodivide.

Grab the #Sextras!

Caught the main show live on JOY 94.9? Well great – jump straight to the #Sextras and listen in, or if you’ve missed the main show – grab this episode and then head over to the next episode to get the #Sextras

Missed an episode? All the Hide and Seek episodes are available at joy.org.au/hideandseek

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Get Prepped and ready:

• PrEP Facts: Rethinking HIV Prevention and Sex on Facebook
• Prevention Access Campaign‘s U=U consensus statement
• PAN [PrEPaccessNOW]
• PrEP’D For Change
• National Association of people with HIV Australia (NAPWHA )

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Michael and Liam take the time to unpack a few extra elements of rubber and latex fetishes. We look at rubber care and repair, plus how Liam first got into his kink. Like Guillaume in the main show, it stems from a childhood fascination, from in his Dad’s tool shed.

We talk buying your first item of gear, and where you can get your next custom bespoke piece to wear out.

Where’s the rest of the show?

We’ve moved our rubber episode SEXTRA content over to this separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the Main Episode!

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Rub up against these bright and shiny topics from this weeks show

• Latex Catfish
• Mr. S Leather 
• Eagle Leather 
• Libidex
• Black Style
• Rubber Pigs
• Polymorphe
• Invincible 
• Rubber Bro – Liam’s friend Dimitri
• Guillaume Dupuis – MIR22 title holder on Instagram @condesta 

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It’s time to bust out the Vivishine and polish up that gear because we’re getting sexy latexy this week on Hide and Seek!

Sashay a-gay

Michael and Liam are joined by extra special guest – Guillaume Dupuis – recently crowned title holder of Mister International Rubber 22, all the way form Montreal! He talks about the international competition, his own local comp, and  getting into rubber at an early age with some cinematic influence…

Shine, shine, shine!

Liam has competed in Melbourne Rubber Man, and MIR himself so we take a look at entering a fetish community competition, and what makes a good community representative.

Grab the #Sextras!

Caught the main show live on JOY 94.9? Well great – jump straight to the #Sextras and listen in, or if you’ve missed the main show – grab this episode and then head over to the next episode to get the #Sextras

Don’t forget the weekly DOWN-LOAD is also in the separate #Sextras episode

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Shine on with these:

• DYNAMIX and Living Positive Victoria’s Navigating Sex in the era of PrEP and U=U  event
• Guillaume Dupuis, Mister Internatinal Rubber 22 on Instagram @condesta

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Give it to me!

Michael is joined in the sextras by Chris Williams from Emen8 and PrEP’D For Change to scratch a bit more of that itch about STIs

There was no way we could cover EVERYTHING in the main episode so we’ve saved some extra sexy content for the Sextras including:

• Window periods for STIs – how soon can I get a test?
• Mouth wash to stop Gonorrhoea?!
• Pre party planning, because no one likes to bring an unwelcome guest to a sex party!
• Shaving together with waxing and creaming the pubic area possibly resulting in STIs?

Plus of course the DOWN-LOAD! The video for which you’ll get of courseon our Tumblr page!

Where’s the rest of the show?

We’ve moved our Loads episode SEXTRA content over to this separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the Main Episode!

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Cure your curiosity with these

• Doxy PrEP survey from Melbourne Sexual Health Centre – mshc.org.au/stiprevention
• Emen8 for all manner of gay, bi, and queer health and wellbeing – and loads of PrEP, U=U, and STI info
• PrEP’D For Change for tonnes of PrEP info

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Liam and Michael had LOADS to talk about this week so make sure to grab this extra special #Sextra episode of Hide and Seek.

…Loads of fun in the after show…

Michael and Liam discuss the first time they met – plot twist – it was at a sex party.

We talk about given a loads to someone, but not in a sexual context… donating sperm! We also talk about the concept of improving jizz taste! mmmm!

Where’s the rest of the show?

We’ve moved our Loads episode SEXTRA content over to this separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the Main Episode!

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Get jizzy with it…

• How Gay Men Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Semen – VICE 

• The Mr International Rubber Live Stream with the Melbourne Rubber Men!

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We’re putting the trick back in trick or treat this Halloween with a LOAD of extra sticky and sweet content.

With the help of resident guest Sexpert Liam, Michael cleans up and covers the show in sexy, sticky, and pun worthy semen stories.

Of course no Hide and Seek episode is quite complete without a little histroy lesson. We look at cum-guzzling Mesopotamian early Christians, semen in war time espionage, and Sambian coming of age jizz cultural practices.

How much protein really is in cum? And can you ever think about ‘smashed avo’ the same way again when we figure out where avocados come from?

Practice makes perfect

Get a load of this! From snowballing to bukakke, cream pies to felching – we get into all manner of cock snot related activities.

All this and more on this weeks jizz worthy edition of Hide and Seek on JOY 94.9

Missed the #Sextras?

We’re moved our Sextra content over to a separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the #Sextras!

Caught the main show live on JOY 94.9? Well great – jump straight to the #Sextras and listen in, or if you’ve missed the main show – grab this episode and then head over to the next episode to get the #Sextras

Don’t forget the weekly DOWN-LOAD is also in the separate #Sextras episode

Missed an episode? All the Hide and Seek episodes are available at joy.org.au/hideandseek

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Get jizzy with it…

• How Gay Men Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Semen – VICE 

• The Mr International Rubber Live Stream with the Melbourne Rubber Men!

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 Post main episode, we unpack some more raunchy content involving skinny guys – namely Liam as he travels the world.

Ambadssador? I hardly Know her!

Liam recounts some sexcapades while travelling abroad involving a European ambassador, and having sex in multiple countries – at once.

The DOWN-LOAD

Michael and Liam explore some porn featuring some slender dudes, with a BDSM twist.

Got a favourite porn you want us to check out? We’d love to see what you’re into! Get in touch!

Because it’s a bit hot, head to our Tumblr page to view the whole video.

Where’s the rest of the show?

We’ve moved our Skinny Guys SEXTRA content over to this separate podcast mini-episode

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Get the skinny on these…

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 While Daddy is away the boys will play!

‘Daddy’ Tim is on holiday, leaving Michael in charge – pray for us. Our extra special guest host, JOY regular, Liam is joining the podcast for a few weeks to lend a hand – and probably more.

Get the skinny on twinks

Michael and Liam unpack what it means to be a slender or slim guy in a culture of gay men that celebrates muscle and a masc4masc mentality. From Tom of Finland to the pages of Mandate, to the film studios of Colt and TitanMen – our Muscle Mary brothers are seen as the epitome of male form to many.

We delve into gay male misogyny and sexism, bottom shaming, femme shaming, mental health, and body image.

Slim pickings

Don’t worry to our thicc boys, we love you too! This episode will be part one in an arc of episodes covering body image in our community.

Missed the #Sextras?

We’re moved our Sextra content over to a separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the #Sextras!

Caught the main show live on JOY 94.9? Well great – jump straight to the #Sextras and listen in, or if you’ve missed the main show – grab this episode and then head over to the next episode to get the #Sextras

Don’t forget the weekly DOWN-LOAD is also in the separate #Sextras episode

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Get the skinny on these…

• Welcome to the Age of the Twink – NY Times Article
• What ‘The Age of the Twink’ Actually Means – The Atlantic counter article
• Out in the Open Bus to Shepparton
• The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs (Check out your local queer bookshop like Hares and Hyenas or Darlinghurst Bookshop )
• LUST – the ADAM naked party event coming Melbourne Cup Eve

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Turn it up on Hide and Seek this week because we are in shock and awe as we explore electrosex – electro stim, or electro play. 

ZAP!

The wonderful as ever Jon Kok lends us his sexpertise in this episode. Jon has brought his gear into the studio before, but nothing that’s needed to be plugged in!

Just like our disappearing reappearing Instagram account, Michael is back in the studio!

Jon brought out the big guns during the #Sextras this week. Because it looked so tempting, Tim couldn’t resist trying out the violet wand, and his E-stim electro egg.

The DOWN-LOAD

Michael, Tim, and Jon review a very stimulating porn from the Kink.com 30 Minutes of Torment collection “No Mercy for Jackson Fillmore: Beaten, Electrified, Humiliated & Fucked” featuring Jackson Fillmore flogging, electro, wax, and CBT. It’s an action packed 30 minutes.

Because it’s a bit hot, head to our Tumblr page to view the whole video.

Where’s the rest of the show?

We’ve moved our Watersports Sextra content over to this separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the Main Episode!

28. “Shocked By The Power” – Electrosex

Caught the main show live on JOY 94.9? Well great – jump straight to the #Sextras here and listen in, or if you’ve missed the main show – grab that first and then head back to the next episode to get the #Sextras

Don’t forget the weekly DOWN-LOAD lives here!

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Get these stunning links!

• Electro Play on Down an’ Dirty
• A Safety Guide To Electro Sex
• Eagle Leather gear and workshops (check back regularly)
• Mannhaus
• the Out In The Open Bus!

Subscribe to Hide and Seek on iTunes!

Because not everyone has an iPhone you can grab us on PodBean or your favourite podcast grabber platform, just search Hide and Seek.

Finally, we’d love to hear your stories! Email: hideandseek@joy.org.au

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We’re feeling golden on this weeks very special warming edition on Hide and Seek. We’re filling your lovin’ cup with something extra as we explore watersports.

Take a sip

Our radio apprentice Kevin Walsh joins us in the studio for the first time since undertaking JOY’s Radio Training Course to help us unzip and unpack watersports. We talk about STIs, taste, and first steps in getting wet and wild for the first time.

Black and Yellow

With the help of Australian Mr. Bootblack 2017 Rhys we talk about taking care of your leather gear (and other fetishwear) when everything is covered in piss! How do you get it off without wrecking your gear – and keep it smelling FRESH!

Missed the #Sextras?

We’re moved our Sextra content over to a separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the #Sextras!

Caught the main show live on JOY 94.9? Well great – jump straight to the #Sextras and listen in, or if you’ve missed the main show – grab this episode and then head over to the next episode to get the #Sextras

Don’t forget the weekly DOWN-LOAD is also in the seperate #Sextras episode

Does that work for you? Is skipping the stuff you’ve already heard totes aprope, or is two podcast annoying? Let us know!

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Get these bona glossies!

• Down an’ Dirty
• HowHard
• Gold Edition at Club80 

Subscribe to Hide and Seek on iTunes!

Because not everyone has an iPhone you can grab us on PodBean or your favourite podcast grabber platform, just search Hide and Seek.

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We’re feeling extra golden on this weeks very special warming edition on Hide and Seek. We’re filling your lovin’ cup with something extra as we explore watersports.

DOWN-LOAD

Tim, Rhys, and Kevin hang around to review the latest porn – which is on theme of course! You can find the weekly DOWN-LOAD on our Tumblr page!

We’ve moved our Watersports Sextra content over to this separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the Main Episode!

Caught the main show live on JOY 94.9? Well great – jump straight to the #Sextras here and listen in, or if you’ve missed the main show – grab that first and then head back to the next episode to get the #Sextras

Don’t forget the weekly DOWN-LOAD lives here!

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Get a little wet with these perfect piss resources!

• Down an’ Dirty
• HowHard
• Gold Edition at Club80 

Subscribe to Hide and Seek on iTunes!

And while you’re there – leave us a review and rate the show!

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Polari, the secret language of gay men was an essential part of life because of the impact the era of criminalised homosexuality had on us, especially in the UK. 

The Queen’s English

To begin with, British chap Peter came into the studio to bring his insights into using the ‘other’ Queen’s English as a form of secret communication.

Speaking in Tongues

Also, we get stuck into some queer vernacular with the most mainstream examples of Polari with Round The Horne guests Julian and Sandy who used the language and therefore regularly subverted UK radiowaves with Polari. 

Dishy and Fishy

Interestingly, our subject this week was featured in the short film Putting On The Dish, therefore it would be remiss if us to skip over this cultural gem! We talk generally about the gay language, and in particular how queer people of colour influence drag language, that the general LGBTI community co-opts , as it makes it’s way into the wider vernacular. 

Get Appy

Before we sign off we get stuck into the Polari app and share some fun queer phrases. 

Ogle our fantabulosa socials!

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Get these bona glossies!

• Putting on the Dish – short film
• The Polari App: polariapp.com 
• Books:
• Polari: The Lost Language of Gay Men
• Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang
• Julian and Sandy

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This is Hide and Seek, and these are the #Sextras for our bisexuality episode.

We’re moved our bisexuality Sextra content over to this separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the Main Episode!

Caught the main show live on JOY 94.9? Well great – jump straight to the #Sextras here and listen in, or if you’ve missed the main show – grab that first and then head back to the next episode to get the #Sextras

Don’t forget the weekly DOWN-LOAD lives here!

Does that work for you? Is skipping the stuff you’ve already heard totes aprope, or is two podcast annoying? Let us know!

You can be multi-social attracted!

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Bi the way… grab these!

• Head to our Tumblr for our Porn Review content and let us know your review!
• Burlesque By Force
• Baby Bi Bi Bi

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Bi, Bi, Bi

Bisexuality is the theme of the week, as Bi Visibility Day is coming up this Sunday 23rd of September so let’s unpack multiple gender attraction!

Our returning guest Steve – who previously joined us on our Chemsex show ‘A Rush of Blood To The Head’ and our Douching episode ‘Look What You Made Me Douche’ talks about coming out, after coming out already – and acknowledging and owning your bisexuality.

Ken from the Country dials in to talk about his experience having his bisexuality exposed, and the media onslaught that bounced across the globe because of his experience, biphobia and bisexuality visibility in regional and rural settings.

Missed the #Sextras?

We’re moved our Sextra content over to a separate podcast mini-episode

Grab the #Sextras!

Caught the main show live on JOY 94.9? Well great – jump straight to the #Sextras and listen in, or if you’ve missed the main show – grab this episode and then head over to the next episode to get the #Sextras

Don’t forget the weekly DOWN-LOAD is also in the seperate #Sextras episode

Does that work for you? Is skipping the stuff you’ve already heard totes aprope, or is two podcast annoying? Let us know!

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Bi the way… grab these!

• Petition the TGA not to ban poppers
• Bi Alliance Victoria
• Triple Bi-Pass on JOY!
• Northside Bizarre
• VicBears UNION Slave Auction
• Celebrate Bisexuality+ Day event

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The Sexperts from Hide and Seek popped on our chaps, grabbed a microphone and ducked into Oz Kink Fest’s crowning glory event – the Fetish Expo!

This is just one of the amazing 10 days of fetish events, so make sure to head to the Oz Kink Fest website to check out all the workshops and events on offer!

We grabbed some performers, exhibitors and exhibitionists to talk about this all inclusive kinky event, and the 10 massive days of events, workshops, and parties that Oz Kink Fest has to offer!

Firstly, we apologise for not being at our usual studio quality as we recorded the ENTIRE podcast on location in a massive hall filled to the brim with weird and wonderful kinksters!

Where’s Polly

We talk to hottest with the mostest Polly Filla dressed in her finest “Where’s Polly” couture

We grabbed each of the previous Melbourne Rubber Men, Liam and John – and our reining Melbourne Rubber Man – Matt, for a quick chat about the events.

Girl Ang, current reining Ms International Leather was on site to offer her squirting hankies, pins, and some special bespoke leather items.

The boys Matt and Steve from Cam4 were on site looking like a snack, and being general show offs so we couldn’t resist talking to them.

We grab our soon to be radio buddy Kevan Walsh, current Laird Leatherman, and MAD Wednesday’s Dean Arcuri about expanding our kink and fetish horizons.

This and much more in our special edition podcast only sextra podcast of Hide and Seek – from Oz Kink Fest!

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Get your kink on with these folks!

• Oz Kink Fest 
• Matt and Steve – the Oz Gym Boys from Cam4
• Eagle Leather
• MJ’s Toy Box
• Girl Ang and her pins, hankies, and leather accessories

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