Big Bi+ Questions

26 Mar 2025

Am I actually gay?

Christianity, Health, Religion & Spirituality, Self-Help, Sexuality, Society & Culture

It’s a question many bi+ people had asked themselves at some point. In this episode, we were joined by Felipe to explore why this question came up, how we have navigated it, and what it might say about internalised bi-phobia, our attraction, and the pressure to “pick a side.”

Felipe also shared his journey of discovering his bi+ identity, which involved a move from Colombia to Australia, being supported by Thorne Harbor Health, and finding community with the Melbourne Bisexual Network, now merged with Bisexual Alliance Victoria, becoming a single organisation known as Bi+ Pride Victoria.

Find out more about Bi+ Pride Victoria here: linktr.ee/bipluspridevic

If any of the topics in this episode bring up difficult or intense feelings for you, we encourage you to reach out for support from a trusted friend, community, or mental health professional. You can find a list of organisations you can turn to for support on this page: joy.org.au/support

Connect with the Big Bi+ Questions team on Instagram @bigbiquestions or email bigbiquestions@joy.org.au. Give us a big bi+ question to tackle or share your experiences with this question. We’d love to hear from you!

Check out other Big Bi+ Questions podcast episodes here: joy.org.au/bigbiquestions

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