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3 Apr 2023

Ep 122 – Hurts So Good

BDSM, Education, Full episodes, Interviews, Party, Sex Work, Toys

Tim and Jon are joined by ProDomme CJ to talk about pain play, sadism and masochism, nipple play and CBT (Cock and Ball Torture and Clit and Breast Torture). CJ has been a Professional Dominatrix (ProDomme) and has expertise in a myriad of kinks, including pain play, fire and impact play (plus a GREAT many more 🙂 )

CJ explains safety, play spaces, and how to get the most out of an SM session.

For more on Play Spaces, you can check out our past episode, Dungeons and Daddies, where we discuss how to lay out a play space.

CJ mentions her love of Erotic Hypnosis, which you can hear us discuss with Matt C in Eyes Wide Slut.

In talking about CBT (pain play with genitals), CJ and Jon also talk about Urethral Sounding, which we talked about in depth (hehehehe) in Sneaky Sound System.

For some Melbourne based BDSM workshops, check out the Establishment and Folsom Down Under

If you’d like to check out some online events, follow DnD Live by Down an Dirty

This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

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